| Important people | Thursday, June 28, 2012 | A comment maybe? |
Life is tough. Especially when you are growing up everyday, more things will come in your way.
You have to deal with many challenges, be it your family, your partner, your friends or even things around you.
1st, will always be your family.
I believe that they will always be by your side no matter how much darkness you went through. They will always be your cushion, despite the times you have fallen.
2nd, Your Partner.
The right one meant for you? The answer is only in your heart. There were times I wanted to give up, but it's the happy memories that are keeping me back. Are you really worth, for me to stay by your side? Negative stuffs happened to my friends, made me give a second thoughts. Do happy endings only happen in fairytales?
In my point of view, might not be the same to others.. Just wondering, why do some guys change so much? From before to after, from being sweet to being rough.. There is a Chinese phrase: ' We are meant to be a treasure before having us, but rubbish after having us. ' Really?
Yeah, we girls might be rough. But, the strength from you guys are twice or even more than us. Can you imagine the pain we have to bear after hitting us, emotionally and physically? You never know the scars that are left behind, not only on our body, but in our heart. Yeah, we might appear tough and fine in front of you. Yet, every single word from you matters...
I believe not all guys are like this. It's just that some of us haven't find the right one. But, guys have to remember.. You need to bear the consequences of every word you speaks. Because, you never know how deeply it cut our hearts.
3rd, Friends.
The difference between real and fake friends:
a) They care for you all the times, but
not only when they need you.
b) They don't ask for nothing in return, just hoping the best for you.
c) They laugh, cry, be crazy with you, instead of mocking you.
d) They will still stay by your side, after multiple quarrels and fights.
Etc... (many more that i can't think of now)
Friendship matters the most! It is much more important than your relationship. You break up with your boyf/girlf, but never with your best friends. They always stay by your side, console you through tough times, brace you up! :D They are like our precious gems, that shouldn't be separated ever~
My 4 years' friendship, turns awkward after a small stupid fight. Simply not worth it! I want it back to normal, and have fun like we used to.. Confide in each other like we used to.. Tease each other like we used to..
Everyone stands a place in our heart. The size of each, you defines it..
