| 理所當然? | Friday, June 7, 2013 | A comment maybe? |
After a certain period of time, things change in our relationship.
Sweet long text become casual short text, with just "oh, take care, good night..".
Long phone calls with endless topics became short phone calls with wordless topics, with reasons of "I am getting sleepy, tired after whole day of work/study.." .
These things happen for a reason. Getting too used to each other.. A chinese phrase, 理所當然, suits here.
Why? Both of them thought that there isn't any need to show out their affection to each other, assuming that the other party would always know what he/she feels.. That's why, misunderstanding always happen. Both of them are just waiting for the other to take one step towards them.
Rather saddening huh~
How wonderful it would be, if your boyfriend is also your best friend, that you can confide anything with him~ Without any worries of him, judging you for anything. I would definitely love it.
When misunderstandings are solved, things would certainly get better. Leave it unsolved, it would definitely be brought up in the future, or leaving a scar in your heart.
Don't get used to each other. Life is meaningless without any fun in it. Bring out more sparks in your relationship, and it would definitely be better.
Don't always wait for the other party to make the first move. Be it you are a girl/guy, make the first move before regretting it in the future! You never know how would that move affects it..
Sweet long text become casual short text, with just "oh, take care, good night..".
Long phone calls with endless topics became short phone calls with wordless topics, with reasons of "I am getting sleepy, tired after whole day of work/study.." .
These things happen for a reason. Getting too used to each other.. A chinese phrase, 理所當然, suits here.
Why? Both of them thought that there isn't any need to show out their affection to each other, assuming that the other party would always know what he/she feels.. That's why, misunderstanding always happen. Both of them are just waiting for the other to take one step towards them.
Rather saddening huh~
How wonderful it would be, if your boyfriend is also your best friend, that you can confide anything with him~ Without any worries of him, judging you for anything. I would definitely love it.
When misunderstandings are solved, things would certainly get better. Leave it unsolved, it would definitely be brought up in the future, or leaving a scar in your heart.
Don't get used to each other. Life is meaningless without any fun in it. Bring out more sparks in your relationship, and it would definitely be better.
Don't always wait for the other party to make the first move. Be it you are a girl/guy, make the first move before regretting it in the future! You never know how would that move affects it..
