Friendship? | Saturday, June 29, 2013 | A comment maybe? |
I thought you were different.
You proved me wrong.
I shouldn't have expect too much.
Just feeling disappointed.
As a friend, you should care about their feelings, other than your partner's. Equality right? Especially when that partner is not worth it.
Unless you feel that him/her isn't important to you at all, but your partner matters more.
Put yourself in other's shoes.
Yes, she knows that she shouldn't get so involved in your relationship.
Yes, she knows that you have the fear of it.
Yes, she knows that you are worried that your partner is very unhappy about the words she said.
She may be impulsive, but that's her character and she is trying her best to keep her cool.
She just thinks that it's so unfair to you.
She is just trying her best to help you.
She just want to help in any way she can think of, even if she knows that you don't agree to it.
She cried, because she feel your pain, and your anger.
And she also cried, because your actions and attitude hurts her.
You don't treat your best friend like this. You don't make her feel out of place. You don't make her feel unimportant in your life. You don't make her feel like your partner is so important to you than her. If you were to continue this way, she might just leave someday.
She just thinks that it's so unfair to you.
She is just trying her best to help you.
She just want to help in any way she can think of, even if she knows that you don't agree to it.
She cried, because she feel your pain, and your anger.
And she also cried, because your actions and attitude hurts her.
You don't treat your best friend like this. You don't make her feel out of place. You don't make her feel unimportant in your life. You don't make her feel like your partner is so important to you than her. If you were to continue this way, she might just leave someday.
In the end, she thinks that she is being too much of an busybody. She feels that she isn't important as she thought she was.
But but but..

Although she might not be important than your partner.
Although she might not be your only friend.
She still want you to know,
That she will be there when you need her.
That she will be by your side even she does nothing but to listen to you.